Becoming Fire Boudoir | Detroit Boudoir Photographer

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I'M NOT A MODEL...

I'm not good enough, it's not worth it if I don't think I'll look good, I don't have a reason, I need to loose weight, I've done them with a friend and hated them...

 I hear TONS of excuses as to why people don't want to book a session and I'm here to tell you that the pros outweigh your cons...

 You don't have to be a model because I'm here to guide the posing process. You are good enough, don't let anyone tell you otherwise! Ok listen... You're going to look AMAZING with my years of experience and expertise in the field, I've been shooting professionally for 10 years and have photographed well over 100 boudoir sessions and I know for a fact that you are going to fall in love with yourself!

 Okay but like your reason for a session doesn't have to be marriage, anniversary, Valentine's day. It could be for self love therapy, celebration of your 1,2,3,4,5th kid, it could be because you just want to have new wall art in your bedroom and you want it to be of you, maybe you just bought a new set of lingerie you love? You don't even need a reason!

So this one is the biggest misconception... "I need to lose weight first" is such a lie. Understandable that you might be on a fitness journey to becoming stronger, losing weight, and eating more healthy... But, self love is so important at any stage. Could you imagine getting a boudoir session and seeing how amazing you look with your here and now, having an overflowing confidence like no other and then BAM you hit you goals look back at those photos and say WOW I was as hot in those photos as I am now... Then do another session and Rick that one too! Boudoir isn't a "one time thing" it's a "I hit a goal or had a life event or just because thing" so you can cut that shit out because even as valid as your concerns are, you have the support!

 Ok... So if you had these done by a friend and even if they were a photographer, it's not even the same... It was a HUGE learning curve for me to go from weddings to boudoir and I'll admit the photos didn't start out too great, but over time shooting and learning and doing the poses myself, I began to realize this isn't something you can pick up over night.

YOU’VE GOT THIS!