Confidence is usually treated like a prerequisite for booking a boudoir session, something you're supposed to already have before you're allowed to show up. That's backwards. Confidence is far more often the result of the session, not the entry fee.
Still, there are real things you can do in the days leading up to your shoot to walk in feeling steadier, even if full confidence doesn't arrive until you're already in the room.
Read MoreYour session is tomorrow, and the mix of excitement and nerves is probably louder tonight than it's been at any other point since you booked. That's normal. Here's exactly how to spend tonight so tomorrow morning starts calm instead of chaotic.
Read MorePreparation isn't about being flawless by the time you walk in. It's about removing the small, avoidable stressors so the day can actually do what it's meant to do. Use this as a working checklist in the days leading up to your session.
Read MoreMost people picture a boudoir session as one thing: the shoot itself. Lights, poses, lingerie, done. In reality, the shoot is maybe half the day. Everything happening around it, the studio itself, the hair and makeup process, the small moments between outfit changes, shapes the experience just as much as anything captured through the lens.
Here's what actually goes on behind the scenes.
Read MoreIf you're reading this because your stomach drops every time you think about actually booking a session, you're not the exception. You're the rule.
Almost every client who walks through the studio door for a first session arrives carrying some version of the same feeling: a mix of wanting this and being terrified of it, sometimes both in the same breath. That combination doesn't mean you're not ready. It usually means you're exactly the kind of person this experience was built for.
Read MoreBooking is the easy part. The harder part, for most women, is the stretch of time between hitting "confirm" and actually walking through the studio door, when your imagination fills in all the blanks with worst-case scenarios that almost never happen.
So here's the real version, laid out start to finish, so nothing on session day catches you off guard.
Read MoreEvery week, someone tells me the reason they haven't booked a boudoir session yet, and almost every reason traces back to something they heard secondhand, not something they actually know to be true. Boudoir carries a lot of baggage it doesn't deserve. Most of it comes from movies, a handful of Instagram accounts doing it badly, or one bad experience someone else had years ago that got passed around like fact.
So let's clear some of it out. Here's what's actually true, myth by myth.
Read MoreBoudoir photography is an intimate portrait experience, typically done in lingerie, loungewear, or whatever feels like you, designed to be empowering rather than exposing.
The word itself comes from the French term for a woman's private dressing room. Modern boudoir has almost nothing to do with a specific room or a specific look anymore. It's built around a feeling: seen, celebrated, and fully yourself for the length of a session.
Read MoreMost women who book a boudoir session will tell you the same thing afterward:
"I didn't expect to feel like that."
Not because they looked different. Not because the photos were flattering. But because somewhere between walking in the door and seeing themselves on camera, something shifted.
That shift is what boudoir photography is actually about.
Read MoreYour boudoir session is a moment for you to see yourself, feel yourself, and honor the woman you’ve become. Every frame captures more than skin or poses; it captures your confidence, your softness, your fire. I guide the session so you can sink into the experience, letting your vulnerability and strength show up fully. These images don’t just document how you look, they celebrate how you feel in this moment, alive, powerful, and unapologetically yourself.
Read MoreThe holidays are here, and there’s no better time to celebrate yourself. This year I’m doing something a little different — I’ve created two exclusive boudoir photography experiences for women in Detroit, Ann Arbor, and nearby Michigan areas. These sessions are designed to be empowering, playful, and unforgettable.
Read More“I literally don’t even have the words to express or explain how amazing this experience was. In the weeks leading up to you, I was incredibly nervous, but Jarrett was AMAZING every step of the way and kept reassuring me over and over and over until he was blue in the face. The patience this man has is unmatched, the ability he has to make you feel comfortable in a truly uncomfortable situation is unreal. Plus, his turnaround time? FLAWLESS! 15/10 would recommend him to anyone and everyone and will be going back!”
Read MoreMaggie stretched across the couch, a blanket draped over her legs, scrolling absentmindedly on her phone. Chris walked in, holding two mugs of cocoa.
“What’s the plan for Valentine’s Day?” he asked, handing her a mug.
She took a sip, her brow furrowing slightly. “You mean besides the usual dinner and overpriced chocolate?”
Chris shrugged. “I don’t know. I just feel like we’ve done it all before. I want this year to be different. Something we’ll actually remember.”
Maggie grinned mischievously. “Different, huh? How about we make it spicy?”
Chris raised an eyebrow. “Spicy like Thai food?”
Read MorePlanning a bachelorette party is no small task—it’s your chance to create an event that perfectly captures the bride-to-be’s personality and spirit. The goal? Something truly unforgettable, filled with laughter, connection, and a touch of luxury. Instead of sticking to the typical dinner and drinks, consider elevating the celebration with a luxurious boudoir group experience.
Read MoreBuilding self-confidence and practicing self-love are essential steps toward living a fulfilled and authentic life. For many, these concepts feel elusive, overshadowed by self-doubt, societal pressures, or life challenges. The Self-Love and Empowerment Workbook is a tool designed to help individuals reconnect with their inner strength, cultivate confidence, and embrace the unique qualities that make them who they are.
This workbook is about progress, reflection, and celebrating the journey of self-discovery.
Read MoreBoudoir is a Love Letter to Yourself! Let’s get real for a second. Life can feel like a never-ending to-do list: work, family, obligations, ugh. When was the last time you did something unapologetically for YOU? Boudoir is your permission slip to put yourself first. It’s self-care—but make it spicy.
Read MoreLet’s be real—boudoir photography can feel a little intimidating at first, right? But it’s also one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself. I promise, by the time you see your photos, you'll be saying, “Wow, is that really me?!” Here are eight tips to help you walk into your session feeling like the confident, stunning queen you are.
Read MoreBecause “Hey babe, I got sexy pictures of me” is a little blunt (but hey, it works too).
Let’s be real: boudoir photography is a whole vibe. It’s about feeling gorgeous, confident, and like the main character in your own story. For many, it’s also about sharing that vibe with your partner in a way that’s intimate, fun, and unforgettable.
Read MoreMy goal is to empower individuals to feel strong and confident, both in the gym and beyond. I envision creating a supportive environment where clients can not only work on their physical fitness but also develop a holistic approach to their health—one that encompasses mental well-being, nutrition, and a positive body image.
Read MoreAs we shift our focus to more on-location boudoir photography, I’m excited to share some of my favorite spots around Detroit with you! Whether it’s the elegant charm of a downtown hotel or the cozy, inviting feel of an Airbnb, these places create the perfect backdrop for a truly personalized and intimate session. Each location has its own unique vibe, allowing us to craft a setting that’s just right for you and your style, making your shoot feel extra special.
