Every boudoir session tells its own story, and some moments stand out in a way that stays with you long after the shoot is over. One of those moments for me was working with Miss A. I had the privilege of photographing her wedding the year before, so when she reached out about doing a boudoir shoot, I couldn’t wait to work with her again. But even though we had shared such a special day before, I could tell by the tone in her voice that she was nervous. And honestly, who wouldn’t be?

Leading up to the shoot, we spent time talking about the details. As we went through everything—from what to wear to what to expect—I could sense her growing anxiety. The idea of being in front of the camera in such a personal way is nerve-wracking for anyone. Even though she had trusted me with something as monumental as her wedding day, this felt like an entirely different experience. I reassured her every step of the way, explaining how I would guide her through each part of the process.

The day of the shoot arrived, and Miss A was still feeling those nerves, but I knew that was normal. The anticipation can feel overwhelming, but my job is to make sure everyone feels comfortable and empowered from start to finish. Once the camera started rolling, something amazing happened. After just five minutes, it was like a switch flipped. Her body language shifted, and the tension she had been holding onto began to melt away.

By the end of the shoot, Miss A was absolutely glowing, full of confidence, and having so much fun she couldn’t help but dance around the room. The energy was contagious, and I could see how empowered she felt. She was so excited by the experience that she wanted to do it all over again just three days later! (Though we decided to hold off for now!)

Her review says it all:

“I literally don’t even have the words to express or explain how amazing this experience was. In the weeks leading up to you, I was incredibly nervous, but Jarrett was AMAZING every step of the way and kept reassuring me over and over and over until he was blue in the face. The patience this man has is unmatched, the ability he has to make you feel comfortable in a truly uncomfortable situation is unreal. Plus, his turnaround time? FLAWLESS! 15/10 would recommend him to anyone and everyone and will be going back!”

Watching someone go from feeling nervous to stepping into their power, from being unsure to feeling beautiful, is why I love boudoir photography so much. It’s not just about taking pictures—it’s about helping people discover their own strength and beauty in a way they may never have seen before.

If you’re feeling nervous about booking a boudoir session, I want you to know that it’s completely normal. Like Miss A, you may feel apprehensive at first, but I’ll be there to guide you every step of the way. And before you know it, you’ll be celebrating yourself in a way you never thought possible.

If you’re ready to embrace your inner confidence and see yourself in a new light, I’m here to help you every step of the way.

“Get you a photographer that can do it all!”