8 Tips to Feel Confident and Beautiful During Your Boudoir Session

Let’s be real—boudoir photography can feel a little intimidating at first, right? But it’s also one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself. I promise, by the time you see your photos, you'll be saying, “Wow, is that really me?!” Here are eight tips to help you walk into your session feeling like the confident, stunning queen you are.

1. Find a Photographer You Click With

This one’s huge. Feeling at ease during your session starts with finding someone you genuinely vibe with. When you trust your photographer, the nerves melt away, and the fun begins. So take your time, stalk portfolios, read reviews, and don’t be afraid to hop on a call to see if they feel like “your person.”

2. Talk About Your Vision (and Fears)

Let’s chat about what excites you and what makes you nervous! Whether it’s a specific pose you’ve always dreamed of or a part of your body you’re a little self-conscious about, sharing these details helps me tailor the session to YOU. I want you to leave feeling like a goddess, so don’t hold back.

3. Treat Yourself to Pre-Shoot Self-Care

The week before your shoot is the perfect excuse to pamper yourself—because you deserve it! Drink extra water, get a good night’s sleep, and maybe splurge on that mani-pedi or facial. You’ll feel refreshed, glowing, and ready to slay. Oh, and don’t forget: stretchy clothes before the shoot are a must to avoid any unintentional marks on your skin.

4. Wear Outfits That Light You Up

What makes you feel unstoppable? A lacy bodysuit? A silky robe? Or maybe that cute oversized sweater that makes you feel effortlessly sexy? Bring a mix of looks that scream YOU—this is your time to shine, so rock whatever makes you feel confident and powerful.

5. Practice Posing and Pep Talks

Okay, this one’s fun—try posing in front of your mirror! It’s a great way to get comfortable with your body and figure out your favorite angles. While you’re at it, hype yourself up. Tell your reflection, “I’m beautiful, strong, and absolutely worth celebrating.” Because you are.

6. Create Your Hype Playlist

We’re not just talking photos here—we’re creating a vibe! Whether it’s Beyoncé, Lizzo, or something a little more sultry, bring your go-to playlist to set the mood. I’ll play it during the session, and trust me, it’ll feel like your own personal runway show.

7. Celebrate Your Beautiful, Authentic Self

Here’s the deal: you don’t need to be a model or have “perfect” anything to look incredible in your photos. Your beauty is in your unique features, your confidence, and your story. The best part of boudoir? It’s not about looking a certain way—it’s about FEELING amazing.

8. Relax and Trust the Process

This is your time to let go and just be. I’m here to guide you, pose you, and make sure every shot looks incredible. So take a deep breath, trust the process, and have fun with it. You’ll be amazed at how quickly you settle into the session and just own it.

You’re beautiful exactly as you are, and I can’t wait to show you just how stunning you look through my lens.

So, what do you say? Let’s create some magic together!